Diary Question 3 - Literary Addicts2024-03-28T23:37:52Zhttp://literaryaddicts.ning.com/forum/topics/diary-question-3?groupUrl=literary-addicts-book-club&commentId=6621382%3AComment%3A83981&x=1&feed=yes&xn_auth=noI agree that Lillian is very…tag:literaryaddicts.ning.com,2015-11-07:6621382:Comment:839812015-11-07T02:19:40.317ZViolet Howehttp://literaryaddicts.ning.com/profile/VioletHowe
I agree that Lillian is very much aware, and she uses it to get what she needs/wants, although sometimes what she wants is actually what's best for Tyler.
I agree that Lillian is very much aware, and she uses it to get what she needs/wants, although sometimes what she wants is actually what's best for Tyler. You are so right! Hence the d…tag:literaryaddicts.ning.com,2015-11-07:6621382:Comment:839732015-11-07T02:07:24.059ZViolet Howehttp://literaryaddicts.ning.com/profile/VioletHowe
You are so right! Hence the difficulty in changing the way we are treated once the relationship is established.<br />
I think Lillian has definitely asserted herself and Tyler is unwilling to challenge her. I actually think Lillian sometimes goads Tyler or pushes her to try and make her stand up for herself.
You are so right! Hence the difficulty in changing the way we are treated once the relationship is established.<br />
I think Lillian has definitely asserted herself and Tyler is unwilling to challenge her. I actually think Lillian sometimes goads Tyler or pushes her to try and make her stand up for herself. I agree. I think she is very…tag:literaryaddicts.ning.com,2015-11-07:6621382:Comment:839712015-11-07T02:04:23.018ZViolet Howehttp://literaryaddicts.ning.com/profile/VioletHowe
I agree. I think she is very fond of Tyler, but I think Lillian keeps herself reserved and separated from everyone so she doesn't get too attached and involved.
I agree. I think she is very fond of Tyler, but I think Lillian keeps herself reserved and separated from everyone so she doesn't get too attached and involved. I don't know if Lillian is sc…tag:literaryaddicts.ning.com,2015-11-07:6621382:Comment:841522015-11-07T02:02:53.110ZViolet Howehttp://literaryaddicts.ning.com/profile/VioletHowe
I don't know if Lillian is scared. I don't think much scares her! I agree with you that she sees how good Tyler is, though. I think she sees it as a challenge to push Tyler to reach her potential.
I don't know if Lillian is scared. I don't think much scares her! I agree with you that she sees how good Tyler is, though. I think she sees it as a challenge to push Tyler to reach her potential. Lillian is the alpha in the r…tag:literaryaddicts.ning.com,2015-11-07:6621382:Comment:842122015-11-07T00:09:32.887ZVincent F. A. Golphinhttp://literaryaddicts.ning.com/profile/VincentFAGolphin
<p>Lillian is the alpha in the relationship, and Tyler grew too used to the arrangement. I looked at the Nov. 12 incident with the budget as the main indicator. Golphin's law - the way you start is the way you finish. Once comfortably established, the power dynamic in most relationships are impossible to shift. Note the difference in Laura's response to Lillian. </p>
<p>Lillian is the alpha in the relationship, and Tyler grew too used to the arrangement. I looked at the Nov. 12 incident with the budget as the main indicator. Golphin's law - the way you start is the way you finish. Once comfortably established, the power dynamic in most relationships are impossible to shift. Note the difference in Laura's response to Lillian. </p> Yes, I think Lillian is aware…tag:literaryaddicts.ning.com,2015-11-04:6621382:Comment:836982015-11-04T03:00:06.106ZJoey Rosshttp://literaryaddicts.ning.com/profile/JoeyRoss
<p>Yes, I think Lillian is aware of Tyler's reaction to her. I think Lillian cares about Tyler but also doesn't want to seem too friendly because she is Tyler's boss.</p>
<p>Yes, I think Lillian is aware of Tyler's reaction to her. I think Lillian cares about Tyler but also doesn't want to seem too friendly because she is Tyler's boss.</p> She's aware and probably thin…tag:literaryaddicts.ning.com,2015-11-03:6621382:Comment:841062015-11-03T14:04:18.601ZDivaChttp://literaryaddicts.ning.com/profile/DivaC
<p>She's aware and probably thinks Tyler really is good enough to take over one day, and maybe she's scared of that fact and tries to control the situation to her advantage.</p>
<p>She's aware and probably thinks Tyler really is good enough to take over one day, and maybe she's scared of that fact and tries to control the situation to her advantage.</p> I think she is aware and she…tag:literaryaddicts.ning.com,2015-11-03:6621382:Comment:839002015-11-03T03:57:51.073Zyvonne farmerhttp://literaryaddicts.ning.com/profile/yvonnefarmer
<p>I think she is aware and she uses it at times but tries to not take advantage.</p>
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<p>I think she is aware and she uses it at times but tries to not take advantage.</p>
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